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Here are 5 signs you have a wounded inner child.
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Many men have no idea how to communicate With their women and because of that They become very emotional and because They become very emotional the woman has No other choice but to be angry and Really stems to the man's fault and Realizing that he did not know how to Express his truth because when he looked At Mom and Dad he saw Mom and Dad Fighting he probably looked at dad and He probably saw Dad as weak and even Though he did not want to become like His father he essentially became his Father [Music] So the summer before dental school I Literally had one of the most painful Breakups of my life and here was Something that I loved so much but it Just did not work out and even though it Was one of the most painful moments of My life it actually ended up being a Blessing in disguise because of the Motivation that it caused me to go ahead And focus on myself so while everyone Else was kind of going to school and Getting the grades and getting a job I Had no more friends because I spent most Of my time with the woman that I was Dating and because when we broke up I Was just like well what do I do now I Have no friends I have no one else close To me I have no one else around me no One understands me I feel freaking alone
I have nothing to do everyone else is Going to school I dropped out of dental School so I literally took a one-way Trip ticket to Asia For the first year or so I was just Traveling around Thailand really finding Myself backpacking seeing the things From different perspectives and from all Of those string of events I ended up Getting into a place in Bali right I met A mentor he told me to fly to Bali I was Like cool and I didn't know this at the Time but in Bali ended up being one of The most spiritual years of my life just Essentially being in the jungles living Meditating all those things finding out More about myself finding out all the Pains that not only essentially happened From you know the past relations that I Had but also the anger that I also had For my parents and I started realizing That as I was going around to all these Spiritual circles they were like oh you Have a wounded inner child you have a Wounded inner child you have wounded Inner child I'm like what the heck is a Wounded inner child what are you talking About I'm a grown man I don't have some Wounded inner child in me like it just Made no sense when I first heard the Concept of oh maybe it's because all the Anger and the pain and the lack of Positive relationships that you have in Your life maybe it's because you have a
Wounded inner child and again I was so Confused because everyone else Rome You're so spiritual they're like you Have a wounded inner child Mike you have A wounded inner child mic and I had no Idea what it was but essentially what They told me was every painful Relationship that I had in my life in my Past was because of this wounded child And what what is actually a wounded Child this is what I was curious about Well from my earliest memories And your earliest memories this is where You were taught the mental models that You would go ahead and interact with Other people in the entire world right From the first relationship that you had Which was essentially your mother and Then your father You essentially were taught how to Communicate to the people that you Actually love and for most people most Parents had no idea how to exactly Communicate right they maybe fought they May be yelled they may be argued they May be complaining about money maybe for Example the father ended up becoming Weak and the woman and the mother became Angry because the father became weak and Before you know it you literally just Have like a bad family Dynamic Essentially raising you no matter how Amazing parents they were they also had Their flaws where essentially this is
Exactly how you were taught to express Your emotions as well as expressing your Communication with the people that you Go ahead and for example love right and For most people most parents did not Argue in the right way did not overcome Conflict in the right way so obviously When you're younger and the thing that You notice when you're younger the two People that loved each other so much to The point where they created you now This is exactly how they talk to each Other so this is exactly how you go Ahead and communicate with the world so Essentially you're wounded inner child What I learned from going to all these Spiritual events and Tantra events was Essentially when you were younger you Noticed this and you were so hurt Because the people that you loved the Most were fighting and deep down you Blamed yourself and your inner child Took the responsibility for their fight So this child was wounded depending how It is that you were wounded essentially We'll give you the relationship with Love are you chasing love are you a love Chaser or you'll love a void or you run Away from love right are you anxious all The time and you want to be attached or Do you not like being around people too Much and you want to be detached all of This was learned from your parents all This was learned from your parents if
Your parents were constantly fighting Constantly fighting constantly fighting Right you learned a way to go out and Communicate if your father was Constantly running away from your mother You learned exactly like what to do if You're a man or woman based off of that Dynamics if your father was a really Really good nice guy and your mom became Very very controlling and overbearing Right then you learned exactly who You're going to essentially become your Father or if you're a woman you learn to Become overbearing like for example Your Mother We tend to learn exactly who we Will become Based off of the trauma or the wounded Inner child that our younger self Experienced in our formative years from Ages 6 to 12. so depending on how for Example painful the experience was of Seeing like your parents fight and Arguing all those things that's exactly How you were taught to either receive or Give love does that make sense and again This is one of the most painful things Because I was looking back in my Relationships and I was like why does Every single relationship that I have no Matter how amazing it starts off why Does it always end up in pain why why Does it always end up in arguing why Does it always end up in Conflict why Did something so beautiful why did it
Get so soiled and it's because I did not Understand this but I was adopting the Communication patterns of my parents and They were adopting the communication Patterns from their parents and if you Really think about it most people's Parents had no idea how to communicate So the tools that we were taught on how To communicate with our loved ones do Not work but yet because we fall in love With what is familiar not what is Healthy we bring that into every single Relationship and again if you really Want to go ahead and have meaningful Relationships and you want to go ahead And create that relationship that Actually not only excites you but Fulfills you you need to understand what Pain points and how that inner child That you had when you're younger was Actually wounded so actually how do you Go ahead and figure that out well the First step is finding out do you Actually have a wounded inner child well Here are kind of the main signs that I've noticed if you have a wounded child The first one is every single Relationship that you have ever had ends Up bad Sign if you you have a wounded inner Child is look at your past relationships You probably had some good people in Your life for just a short amount of Time but for some reason the longer you
Spend time with them for some reason Instead of bringing the best out of each Other you bring out the worst out of Each other and that's how you know that You have a wounded inner child if every Single relationship that you have Through time you bring out the worst in Each other instead of the best in each Other and I saw this in the time like if I literally look back in my previous Relationships it doesn't matter if it Was like you know relationships with Women that I was dating or relationships With guys that I want to go ahead and do Business with or do sports with through Time I always realized that the Relationships brought out the worst in Each other if that's the case what's the Point in the relationship what's the Point in the relationship if in the Relationship you only bring out the Worst in each other when you were in a Relationship you should spend time with People that only bring out the best in You where you bring out the best in them And they bring out the best in you life Is too damn short to go out and spend Time with people that only bring the Worst out of you and if you are spending Time with people that are only bringing The worst out of you and you are only Bringing the worst out of them through Time it means you have a wounded inner Child it means you have something inside
Of you a mommy or daddy issue a lack of Love or over loved where you now adopted That and you brought it into the next Relationship if that is something that You're going through right now it just Means you have a wounded child it Doesn't mean it's bad it just means you Have to identifying it identifying it is One of the first steps to actually Solving the problem the second thing is You get emotional around your lover when You argue one of the biggest things that I realized lies is for some reason you Know in the beginning I wouldn't get Essentially emotional right I wouldn't Get emotional if I was dating a girl and It was like good and fun and the love Making was good I was like okay this is Good but for some reason the longer I Spend time with a woman for some reason The more emotional I became when she Wanted to bring something up and she Wanted to go and say something that was Like troubling her for some reason I was Like looking inside I was like why am I Getting all emotional why am I literally Getting emotional she's arguing with me But for some reason I'm getting Emotionally triggered and I want to go To an argue back oh but you know what I've never had a wounded inner child I'm I'm a man right I'm a man I don't I Shouldn't like like cry I shouldn't go Ahead and feel all these like negative
Emotions I shouldn't feel any emotions But for some reason how come I was like In this relationship and as time was Going by I was getting more and more and More and more and more and more and more Emotional it's because there was Something that I didn't understand that I learned from my past that was causing All these emotions to come up every Single trigger that she ended up doing The behavior that she had reminded me of Something in the past that I I saw Either mommy and daddy having some type Of a conversation with that didn't end Well and for some reason I was adopting The behaviors of either my mom or my dad Depending on when they weren't heard in A specific conflict that one of them Would get emotional so then I started Thinking okay well if I'm getting more Emotional through time with this Relationship it just means that I don't Know exactly how to express what it is That I actually want out of the Relationship it's not the fact that the Woman was overly emotional it was the Fact that I had no idea to express it so When I had no idea how to express Exactly what I wanted out of the Relationship I revert back to my inner Child self my childlike selfware the Only way that he could communicate if he Couldn't Express what it is that he Wanted was he would just whine he would
Complain he would get emotional but That's not the characteristics of a man That's the characteristics of a little Boy and I started realizing why am I Adopting similar behaviors from when I Was a little child into a relationship Where I'm a mature man or when I'm Supposed to be a mature man with this Mature woman right so that was the Second sign that showed that there was a Wounded inner child that I had to go Ahead and identify because the fact that Why should I be emotional in a Relationship right I as a man should be Able to know exactly how to express my Truth instead of just trying to shove it Deep down and what do passive aggressive Misbehavior or essentially the only way I could go out and communicate with my Lovers just uh doing things like being Emotional like it just doesn't make Sense at all right many men many men Have no idea how to communicate with Their women and because of that they Become very emotional and because they Become very emotional the woman has no Other choice but to be angry and it's Really stems to the man's fault and Realizing that he did not know how to Express his truth because when he looked At Mom and Dad he saw Mom and Dad Fighting he probably looked at dad right And he probably saw a dad as weak and Even though he did not want to become
Like his father he essentially became His father That's essentially wounded inner child One-on-one right the third one is you Blame the world and you don't take Responsibility so around several years Ago I was building this business and I Was so excited about this business Because I thought this was gonna be the Thing that was going to make me just the Most amount of money right the most Amount of money the amount of fantasies That I had about this business I was Like you know this is gonna be so much Money I'm never after work ever again It's gonna be great and I started having Like all these partners and we started Building it really really really big and Then guess what Expectations didn't match reality the Business partner started fighting and Before you know it the business that I Wanted to go ahead and build that this Was going to be the thing that would Retire every single person that I loved Essentially died essentially died and in That moment in time All I could think about was it was not My fault and everyone else was to blame But me So many people have this dumb mindset Where they play the victim like it's his Fault it's that fault it's her fault It's all these people's fault that my
Relationship sucks that I'm fat and Unhealthy then I'm broken poor that I Have no friends it's everyone else's Fault but what no one understands is the Biggest person's fault it is is yourself The person that you see in your mirror Right because you have no self-control And not only that but you can't even Control your emotions so you take all of This emotional baggage that you learned When you were younger on when you didn't Get what you want and you blame the World just remember when you were like a Little kid you never took responsibility You're like Mom this person did this This person did that ah no honey maybe It's because you were just being a thing Where you caused that and you weren't Ever taught that your actions and your Behaviors it's all cause and effect if You look at the people around you and They're constantly disrespecting you It's not their fault it's your fault That you are allowing that disrespect to Happen and deep down the reason why they Disrespect you is because you don't even Respect yourself you literally don't Respect yourself and because you don't Respect yourself and you don't want to Take responsibility that all this is Your fault you want to blame the world You want to blame that person and that Person and it's that girl's fault that Your love life sucks or it's that guy's
Fault he he has more better love life Than I do right you blame everyone else But your own another sign that you have A wounded inner child another one is you Don't know how to set boundaries with People and you let people walk all over You when I was younger for some reason I Would spend time with people that would Constantly disrespect me but I was so Afraid to go ahead and find new friends I was like well this is the best friends That I could ever have so I would just Constantly let them disrespect me Constantly let them disrespect me If Ever I was like with a woman right and There was a moment that she started Becoming ungrateful and she started not Essentially respecting me in the way That I wanted for some reason I would Just stick around I was thinking oh well You know like she's the most prettiest Thing that I could ever get I will never Be able to find another girl like her You know this girl like like this is as Good as it gets if I lose her then I I Won't be able to go ahead and for Example get laid ever again like these Are the the little insecure thoughts That I would think about when I was Younger this is the best thing that I Could ever find I should latch on to her And make sure she doesn't get away right And again that's not healthy that's not A healthy thing being a loving
Relationship and to just like anxiously Attached to someone because you're Afraid of for example losing them but Then to swing to the other side and You're like you know what I'm never Going to emotionally open up because I've tried that in the past and that Freaking hurt so then you try the Opposite and you're like oh well this Doesn't work ever and you start Realizing how come no matter what I try In a relationship it's because I don't Feel fulfilled either way and it's not Essentially you loving someone and them Loving you it's essentially you don't Know exactly how to express your Boundaries there was a moment in time Time where you allow the other person to Disrespect you and you let it go Unnoticed if you let things go unnoticed What happens is that disrespect becomes A standard that disrespect becomes a Standard and at any given moment what You really need to understand in any Relationship is if someone doesn't Respect you to the way where you want to Be respected then you at any given Moment need to be able to go ahead and Walk away Oh but Mike I want to go and heal it Sometimes it's just better to just walk Away Sometimes it's better to walk away life Is too short to spend time with people
That do not understand your boundaries That do not respect you for who you are And what you are actually worth You need to understand this right Because the longest thing you could ever Do and the worst thing you could ever do Stay with someone that disrespects you And here's how people feel respected if You're a man you're going to understand This if you're a woman you're going to Understand this so for a man to feel Love he needs to be respected how a man Feels respected is for a woman to be Grateful for every single thing that he Does because man does so much things a Man Works he's going ahead and suffering Out there he's sacrificing his body his Mind his time his energy just so he can Provide for the woman and his kids and The worst thing that could ruin a man is For him to trade so much time at work to Sacrifice himself out there at the job And to come home to an ungrateful wife If he doesn't feel that if a man doesn't Feel respect he will not feel loved so How does the wind feel respected a woman Feels respect with her emotions she Needs to emotionally feel safe she needs To emotionally feel secure I had this friend right I had this Friend he has a really open relationship Uh and an open communication with his Light girl right and he was like Essentially saying hey baby girl I'm
Gonna go ahead and go to the club or the Party or all these things but if I see Another girl and I sleep with her and There's these two scenarios it happens Which one are you going to be more angry At and he's like number one I meet a Girl at this club or party We bang I never see her again and I Don't care about her or the second one I Don't we don't we don't we don't have Sex we don't sleep with each other but I meet her I really like her I take her Around maybe I travel with her maybe we Spend the entire day creating a bunch of You know cool Memories We went and maybe Went to that little photo booth within The corner and we took a bunch of cute Pictures She said that she would get more angry At him for emotionally investing in Another woman than just plain out Sleeping with the woman that he didn't Care about right so you could see that In a woman's mind it's completely Different than for example men a man Just wants to be respected by feeling Grateful a woman needs to feel Emotionally secure that the man really Does care about her emotionally to the Point where she cares more about a man Emotionally cheating with her than he Does she does with a man physically Cheating with her right so again it's All of those things that's exactly how
You go ahead and express certain things One is more gratitude another one is More for example emotional right and It's very interesting because the Boundaries that are set with two people Especially man and woman they're always Going to be confused whenever it comes To like communicating with each other Because it's like men are in a logical Realm well women are in an emotional Realm so even though both can be right Both can never understand each other to The point where a man can understand a Man or a woman can understand a woman Because they just have different Hormones that are that are running their Lives like do you understand that all of Us that we have Her boundaries our goals our values are Really stemmed with the main hormone That is essentially running us right at The end it doesn't matter how smart we Are it doesn't matter how you know Higher level thinking that we are able To go out and think now At the end of the day we're still merely Animals that are just run by our Hormones right men by testosterone Woman By estrogen right and at the day it's Many of our behaviors and our desires And our urges and all of that is stem From those hormones that essentially run Our life does that make sense right to The fifth one you secretly really don't
Like your friends and they're just your Friends because you have no one else to Hang out with another reason for a Wounded inner child when you're wounded Inner child you think you have no Options you just think well oh you know Mom and Dad are fighting but I have no Other mom and dad so I can't just leave Mom and Dad so no matter how much Mom And Dad are fighting I should just stay I should just stay I should just stay so You learn that from your parents no Matter how much your parents fought and How much they blamed each other and how Much they complained about each other You saw okay when people love with each Other like I can't just find new parents So I can just go out and say so you Literally take that same mindset and You're like oh here are all these Friends around me that are constantly Complaining and whining and moaning and Groaning and all these things Complaining about their love life their Money life their jobs all that stuff and You just sit and listen Because you thought well maybe I don't Have any other friends well I don't want To go out and find new friends I'm Afraid I'm afraid of moving to a new City I'm afraid of traveling to the Other side of the world You are taking all of the lessons you've Learned when you were younger and now
You're bringing it into your later right Now and if you look around at all of Your friends and all of your friends Suck they all complain they don't make You a better person they don't motivate You they don't push you to grow guess What maybe it's because you're bringing Little older child into your future self And maybe you have not learned to Actually overcome that when I figure That out I was like you know what I need To go ahead and take a one more trip to Asia I need to run away from this and Initially it doesn't sound good when you Run away from your problems but Sometimes you have to go ahead and run Away to another place to find yourself You literally have to get lost to find Yourself and the only way you could Actually Lose Yourself is to lose all of Your surroundings for just a small Period of time doesn't mean if you have To say bye to them forever but it just Means for a period of time you actually Have to be a little bit selfish and Focus on yourself to actually become the Person that it is that you want to Become and literally one of the things That helped me become that person was Literally time and money freedom I found Ways to separate my time from income so I can literally focus on all the pain Points that I had in the past so I did Not repeat the exact same mistakes in my
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