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He's ever sort of dating coach business This year Boop as you can see several Thousands of dollars a day with this Method [Music] Now here's a very interesting story you Know several months ago I was at a Shisha bar with like some of my friends And one of my friends went up to me and He was like Hey I just signed up for a Dating program and I was like huh you Signed up for a dating program how much And he was like 12K and I was like well What do they actually go out and teach You and he told me he teaches six and Seven figure business owners how to find Love with Eastern European women and I Can't tell you this enough but I've Never sent 12 Grand to someone that I've Never met before so fast other than this Moment in time why is that let's Actually break this down because many People when they go ahead and want to go And sell dating services or or dating Coaching they think they have to go and Compete against all the big influencers And YouTubers and people that have Already big businesses one in fact there Are little people out there that are Charging 12 grand for dating coaching And how do I know that because I spent It okay I literally like he was telling Me this and I was at the shishi bar and He was like yeah yeah he was doing this
This and he said Eastern European women And my ears just like popped up and I Literally grabbed the phone sent him 12 Grand and just like that that person who I did not know I didn't know any Testimonials I didn't even see his Website I didn't see anything yet I gave Him 12 Grand you know when people start Any coaching business they're like oh Well I need a website I need to do all These things I have to go ahead and have All these testimonials I have to do all These things but how did this guy get 12 Grand from me let's have to break this Out because The concept of selling coaching services And not just dating coaching Services Was anything you could literally go Ahead and not only demand premium prices Charge more and actually attract higher Quality clients now before we actually Get into that let's let's talk about the Main problems when people get started When they do any coaching business they Think that they have to go ahead and Charge the least amount possible the Biggest fear is oh you know that person You know he's charging x amount of Dollars and no one's gonna buy for me Because that person's more famous than Me and that person has more followers Than me so maybe I should go ahead and Charge less because then I could go Ahead and get the cheaper customers and
Then I could compete against them Against price now you don't want to go Ahead and do that because you attract The worst types of people it doesn't Matter what type of coaching you do you Do not want to spend time with people Who do not invest in themselves the Reason why is because they're going to Complain they're going to be the victim They're going to go ahead and whine on Why they don't get the results and Essentially they want to just give you Money to complain about their problems You don't want that you know the most Fulfilling thing in any business is when You actually coach somebody that is Willing to take action and willing to do Exactly what it is that you want to go Ahead and do it to right so understand That whatever you price you will attract A different caliber of human being you Know him charging 12 Grand he's not Going to interact people they can't Afford that so the ones that he can Ford Are really really high level people Right so he only targets six and seven Figure business owners which makes you Beg the question when you get started in Any business the thing that you want to Go ahead and go after are the people That actually have the money here's an Example dating service for broke college Students that just had a heartbreak Versus dating advice for people that
Just got a divorce and they have a Six-figure seven figure business Same pain Point different problem Persons teaching Tinder to both of these People but one of them is teaching them How to just sleep with as many women as Possible other ones teaching them how to Find like for example potential future Mother of their child same mechanism Tinder the different approach is the Pain point is a lot bigger in the older Person that's more established right So understand this whatever coaching Services that is that you're doing go For the dating with people that are Already making six and seven figures Because their pain point is a lot bigger The next thing is if you're going to go Out and sell dating coaching to these People what you guys can understand is People that have the most money have the Worst relationships right like I Literally spent a lot of time just Networking and going to all these events And going all these seminars and just Really trying to like up level the People around me that are making money Just so that we could get into like this Nice little competitive frame where we We always want to go ahead and compete On who will grow the most right which is Also really good because in any aspect Of life competition will allow you to go Ahead and get hungrier right when you
See people that were you know had less Than you now making more than you it Makes you never complacent and makes you Never want to go out and just relax Right so I started hanging out with a Lot of people that have high net worths But the funny thing enough is the more High the net worth they had the more That money they ended up having the less Positive dynamics that they had with the Relationship with their women the reason Why Rich guys man they spend all their Time making money and they don't have no Time to actually spend with their loved Ones with their kids with their wives With their girlfriends and because that The Dynamics is just off they're just Trying to you know make appease everyone Else around them with just money but Money can't buy a relationship money Can't buy love and affection money can't Buy happiness and having a woman be Really fully inner feminine to actually Give you love and nurture you and give You this positive energy money can't go In and do that and men think that their Entire life if they chase money that all Of those problems will just go away They're just thinking oh if I just make A bunch of money you know all of this Female problems and relation Dynamics Will happen it'll just disappear when it Is not the case the more money Men Actually make the worse relationships
They actually have you know because the Fact they don't understand frames they Don't understand boundaries they don't Say no so they use money to appease and Compensate for every other aspect of Their life that they lack in and their Women knows about it their women's angry Because the man deep down is weak and he Thinks that he could cover all of his Weaknesses with just more money but Money doesn't do that it just kind of Takes all of the dirt and the garbage of The relationship it just shoves it under The the rug right so these men that Actually make the most money have the Worst relationships so obviously when You go ahead and for example Market to Those people You could actually sell them premium Price points instead of you having to Get hundreds or thousands of customers For like a course that you sell if you Just get like one coaching client to pay You 12 Grand right every single month You essentially have a six figure Business all that guy had to do was find One of these every single month and he Essentially makes an extra six figures a Year and I'm like an easy client man Like he was like telling me Oh you got To go and do this and do that and do This and it was just really good because He spoke to me in the exact same pain Point that I had which was I generally
Just wanted to attract Eastern European Women and not all the girls that I would Just see like for example on Tinder I Generally wanted like a future wife Quality or a future mother of my Children quality I did not want to go Out and just spend it you know sleeping Around with a bunch of women I mean I Don't know maybe I'm getting old maybe It's just something but there's Something about you know this connection With like a woman where you know it Literally just inspires you to go ahead And run through a wall right in terms of Business in terms of success in terms of Just chasing it and getting after life And he spoke to me in those pain points With not having a website and he Literally just had a friend go ahead and Talk to me about it so yeah you know I Spend money on this coaching uh he was Able to go ahead and succeed and I was Like are you freaking serious 12K just like that so again when you Want to go ahead and focus on dating Coaching you want to go ahead and focus To the cream of the crop so the next tip Is how do you go ahead and actually find Them how do you go ahead and find them Now back when I was in Bali right I was Going to a bunch of events right there Was like spirituality events and mine Valley events and like business events And every now and then I would see these
Random coaches it would be like dating Coaches or spirituality coaches going to These events now some of these events Were like three grand four grand five Grand and I'm thinking I'm like how is This this Bali coach affording to go to All of these events because I have a Business and I'm able to go to these Events because I have a business but yet There are all these coaches that are Kind of just running around and floating Around and all these events spending Three grand or five grand for the event And I was asking one of the girls who Was a dating coach right she was Essentially helping women with their Intimacy and I was like so like why do You go ahead and spend all this money For these events she's like oh every Single time I go to one of these events I actually get three or four or five Clients that pay me five grand I'm like Wait so you pay five grand to get access To all of these potential clients you Essentially live your life you do a Little bit of networking and because They see you living your life they give You five grand so essentially you spend Five grand you got even just three Clients pay you five grand you made 15 Grand so you got like ten thousand Dollars profit from this event and you Had a good time right so a lot of people Don't understand that to get access to
Some of these six and seven figure Business owners sometimes you've got to Go ahead and pay for Access I literally Go ahead and pay for access to events Just because I know I'm going to meet People who essentially are going to go Ahead and give me money later on just Because of the men that I am the values That I live and the people that I hang Out with and associate with and the Person that I portray every single day And the value that I give I just know That whenever I go ahead and spend five Or ten Grand in any coaching or any Event that I'm gonna go ahead and make Money just because of the people that Are curated in those events people don't Understand that they're like there's Curated groups of people that are Already looking for what it is that You're looking for and if you're like Well Mike I don't have the money or the Time to go to events there's Facebook Groups you can literally go ahead and Type in you know in any Facebook group Uh dating for business owners that make Six figures right or any type of thing Like dating for women busy women over 30. there are literally Facebook groups That have hundreds if not thousands of People that would literally give you Money and all you got to do is join for Free you don't have to go to the events Like with the spiritual growing Bali did
You could literally go ahead and go on These Facebook groups so once you go Ahead and join in all these Facebook Groups what do you do next well what you Do next is very simple if you are giving Dating advice if you are giving dating Coaching obviously you should have some Type of result that they want people Should be able to look at you and they Go ahead and want to buy the results Because they want to buy into you they See oh wow you were where I used to be Now you are where I want to be you know The information that I want to know Here's some money right so obviously you Probably have a transformational uh idea A transformational story of you getting Where you were a loser broke had no Money had no positive relationships to Someone that has actually the relate the Life that you want in the relationships That you want so what you need to go out And do like a story in a movie going Through the hero's journey you need to Almost write down your hero journey in All these posts don't sell anything just Be like oh this is what I was going to Do you know I I was like alone and all These things and then I found these five Lessons that essentially got me you know The relationship that it was that I want Number one I realize I only attract what It is that I deserve if I don't deserve It that means I need to become something
Different A good guy will attract a good girl a Good girl will attract a good guy a bad Guy will attract a bad girl a bad girl Will attract a bad guy so which one am I If I'm constantly attracting bad Relationships maybe it's not the people That I'm dating but maybe it's myself Maybe I gotta go and work on myself the Third one is I need to go ahead and for Example work on myself I need to go Ahead and go to the gym I need to go Ahead and all of these things I need to Look myself in the mirror and ask myself If I was the opposite gender would I Date me right and the fourth one is I Need to go ahead and for example spend More time with people that were good at Relationships and once they did that This is exactly how I do it don't sell Anything just post it post it all the Groups and another thing take that post It on an Instagram and that record a Video and record your story about that And now you have all this content Everywhere and then guess what happens People will then find you based off of Them relating to your story and your Characteristics for example me my Characteristics are I'm Asian so Generally I'm gonna go in a chat fact More Asians into my life because Asian People would be like well he's Asian if He could do it I could do it too you got
To go and find what makes you unique in Terms of like everybody else in terms of Your personality the way that you dress The personality that you have the energy That you give out in this energy you Need to go ahead and understand like What makes you go and be different the Moment that happens and you just give Give give value people will eventually Slide into your DMs right they'll be Like oh what it is you what you need to Do when they're in your DMs is you need To aggravate the pain point you need to Ask them why is this like this why do You have X Y and Z problem uh what are The biggest challenges with your dating Life and by the time they get to the Biggest pain point you then want to go Ahead and get them on the phone call Now when you get them on the phone call You essentially do more of the same Thing ask them where they're at ask them What where they want to be Able to be and then you spend maybe 10 15 minutes asking them where they're at Another 10-15 minutes ask them where They want to be and then they realize That there's a gap in which they don't Have the results and they're asking well What's preventing them from actually Doing that and many times because I Don't have time or I don't have the Ideas or I'm just lost or I'm just stuck And then you literally go ahead and
Introduce them your coaching oh what's Your coaching uh six to eight weeks of a Transformational experience it could be Group coaching so you don't have to talk To people one-on-one because you don't Have time for that if you keep on doing This maybe you might have too many Clients right and then now you have to Go ahead and just do group coaching and Literally twice a week get on a zoom Call and be like what are your problems And answer them as the time goes by and Then eventually what's going to happen Is you're going to realize oh wow they All have the same problem they all Started from point A to point B and at That point you can literally go ahead And start creating a curriculum around That or then you could literally scale It like crazy and really start Commanding premium prices like five or Ten Grand and obviously if you need help With that and you want to see exactly How we're able to go to do it for our Business that makes you sign up for this Week's free case study in the link below But only if you are serious if you're Broke if you procrastinate if you tend To be lazy don't even do it