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For a man to feel loved he needs to be Respected for a woman to feel love she Needs to feel safe and secure the Problem with nice guys is they are Giving the Safety and Security to their Woman without actually the reciprocity Of feeling respected it's not her fault It's yours It is your dad's fault that is what my Mom would say every single time that They would finish an argument every Single time they would fight about money Every single time they would complain And argue and yell and scream Mom very Routinely would tell me Mike come into My room and just complain about all the Things my dad did wrong and just tell me Do not end up like your father do not End up like your father and whenever you Hear this when you're younger and your Mom essentially blames your father and She's constantly you know just saying It's all his fault what that essentially Did for my mind was essentially like Okay well if my dad's Behavior caused my Mom this much unhappiness then I need to Go ahead and you know be be the best Boyfriend in the future for the future Woman that I'll be with I need to be the Best husband ever and this was kind of Like the mindset that I had every single Time I would get into a relationship Every single time I would get into a Relationship and even though in the
Beginning it would always start off Great it would always start off great But for some reason every single Relationship ended up with me being Disrespected me taking it and me just Wondering why I I don't feel happy where I literally did what my mom said I won't Be like my father in like all of these Relations but for some reason every Single time I got in a relationship Not Only was I disrespected but I just Stayed right I was dead I was so afraid To go ahead and lose the girl and I just You know had all this anxiety and anger And frustration because the entire time I just I just didn't know who I was nor Did I actually feel happy in certain Situations and as I got deeper and Deeper and deeper into this kind of like Mindset I didn't realize at the time but Essentially I had Mr Nice Guy behavior And even though I thought that if I Listened go out and listen to what my Mom said and essentially be a nicer guy To all the women that I would go ahead And for example date That you know it would cause unhappiness Or it wasn't it wouldn't cause the same Amount of unhappiness that she felt but For some reason when I went and listened To my mom and listened to the advice That she gave me when I was little oh Don't end up like your father for some Reason none of my relationships ended up
Working out right none of my Relationships ended up working out maybe It worked out for a little bit but as Time went by you know I just slowly and Slowly and slowly lost more respect in Myself because I didn't know how to say No I'd understand boundaries and I Didn't want to go and deal with the Drama and the fighting and the arguing So I would just appease and appease and Appease because I didn't want to hurt The other person But the longer it would take for me to Actually speak what it is that I Actually wanted a relationship the more I lost respect in myself lost confidence In myself and quite frankly dude it's Like it was always just kind of Confusing because I would not be in a Relationship and you're into being a Relationship but when I was in a Relationship I yearned to be out of it But I didn't have the courage to Actually go out and leave because maybe I had some fear of oh what if I can Never find someone better than her what If you know she's only one or other Things where it's like you know this is It you know I'm PR this is this is as Good as it gets it was all this like Fear and scarcity mindset that I thought It I didn't understand this at the time But again All this stem from me accidentally
Adopting the mindset of being a Mr Nice Guy or being a nice guy or oh if I'm a Nice guy and I go ahead and date someone Then I won't cause the same amount of Unhappiness that my dad calls like for Example my mother and it was just Confusing because my mom was unhappy With my dad's behavior and then I did The opposite of my dad's behavior and Still my the woman that I'd be dating at The time would still be unhappy so I was Just so confused on why no matter what My behavior was the woman that I would Be with would always be unhappy and then I started realizing okay well what what Is actually deeper into this and I Started realizing a bunch of different Things I wrote down a bunch of notes Right here On what it actually means to stop being A nice guy because when you're a nice Guy odds are you probably had a mother That was probably telling you a little Bit too much details about her Relationship with your mother and your Father she's probably complaining on how Your father was like she was probably Talking about how your father is being Such a bad person and causing so much Unhappiness and you probably took the Responsibility on yourself to go ahead And for example be the guy that your Father wasn't right and essentially you Adopted that mindset but for some reason
All of your relationships probably Weren't working up right and here's the Reason why this is literally what I Learned after doing so much internal Work in myself to go and figure out what It is that was causing an unhappiness in My relation so the first one is for a Man to feel love he needs to feel Respected by his woman understand this For a man to feel loved he needs to be Respected by his woman and for a woman To feel love she needs to feel safe and Secure in the relationship okay so here Is the problem okay let me repeat that Again because it's very very very very Important For a man to feel loved he needs to be Respected for a woman to feel love she Needs to feel safe and secure now the Reason why most women aren't respecting You is because you are making them feel Safe and secure while you are not being Respected it's as simple as that it's as Simple as that if you are going in a Relationship and you make the woman feel Safe and secure but you are not being Respected you are a nice guy you are a Nice guy because you are too afraid to Let them know when you actually Disrespect you and odds are it's not Even just women I bet you it's also men I bet you just every single relationship That you have you are afraid of drama You are afraid of chaos you're afraid of
Conflict so you would rather be quiet And not actually speak your truth but Instead yet walked all over from the men In your life and the women in your life Just so that you don't get in any Conflict but secretly deep down what Essentially happens is you lose respect For yourself you lose confidence in Yourself and you just don't like the Person that you see in the mirror and This plagues a lot of people's Relationships so what you guys are going To say again again let me repeat this For a man to feel loved he needs to be Respected for a woman to feel love she Needs to feel safe and secure the Problem with nice guys is they are Giving the Safety and Security to their Woman without actually the reciprocity Of feeling respected and it's not her Fault it's yours It's not our fault it's yours you don't Get out of life what you want you get Out of life what you tolerate and you Are tolerating disrespect because you're Just afraid of just speaking your truth And worrying about how to actually Handle conflict or arguments because When you were younger you saw mom and Dad fight all the time and you realize Whoa that is very very very bad I don't Want to go ahead and hear mom and dad Fight so let me just go ahead and Appease everyone else around me that has
Conflict but what happens is everyone Else around you becomes happier but you Essentially hate yourself when you Become this nice guy so how do you Actually go ahead and get out of it Right Well here's the thing okay a nice guy Allows disrespect because he doesn't Even respect himself So if you're in a relationship and You're causing security and safety in The woman that you're dating right but You're realizing that she's not Respecting you again it's not her fault If she is in respecting you it's because You do not dis you do not respect Yourself if a woman does not respect you It's because deep down you do not Respect yourself and vice versa in any Aspect in life if someone disrespects You and you allow that disrespect to Occur it's because you do not respect Yourself here's an example this when I Was younger man I would always get like Made fun of right I'd always like Tolerate friends that would you know Make fun of me because I was Asian and I Looked weird and maybe I had an accent At the time and I was like skinny at the Time and I wasn't in a good shape and I Was like weird and I tolerated the Friends calling me out on all of the Things that were like essentially wrong With me right I essentially allowed
Disrespect to actually happen and this Was just normal and I would still spend Time with them I would still give them Attention I would still want to hang out With them because that that was just all That I had that was just all that I had When I was younger I only had a small Group of friends and you know obviously When you're younger you go ahead and get Made fun of it in certain ways but I Just allowed the disrespect to happen so Obviously when I allowed the disrespect To happen what I was essentially telling Myself that I did not respect myself Enough to leave the situation I just did it I literally just didn't Because no one ever taught me this Because literally why I learned this From Mom and Dad I learned this from Mom And Dad when people are disrespecting Each other when Mom and Dad were Disrespecting each other I learned that Actually no we have to go and deal with Our problems we have to go ahead and Just make sure the other person's happy But even though when you spend all the Time making sure the other person's Happy you realize deep down that you are The most unhappiest person in the room I Realize that actually What I need to actually do is become a Little bit more selfish right a little Bit more selfish oh wow Mike Become a little bit more selfish no you
Have to be selfish no I'm telling you This if your problem is the fact that You're worried about what everyone else Thinks the actual antidote to actually Heal that is to just become a little bit More selfish now I'm going to warn you What's going to happen is you might Become a little bit too selfish and you Only swing to the other side of the Pendulum if I understand that's just Like the normal Normalcy of life when I was vegan for 30 Days and it didn't work out for me I Literally swung to the opposite end of The pendulum in just only ate meat and Animal organs for like six months right Life is all about swinging into Different extremes and I'm telling you This right now the problem with most Nice guys is when they realize that They're a nice guy and they're like I Need to go in and stop this they swing To the other side of the pendulum and They become a little bit too much Selfish which is fine as long as you go Back to your center now one of the Things that you got to go ahead and do In order to respect yourself a little Bit more is again you just need to get a Little bit more selfish you need to Focus more on yourself you need to focus On growing and becoming a person that Actually deserves respect does that make Sense so here's an example right the
Reason why I was able to go ahead and Learn all this is because I learned this From my mom and my dad right so Essentially what happened is Mom would Start you know getting more and more and More chaotic more and more and more Chaotic and my dad because he was afraid To go ahead and anger my mom essentially What he ended up doing he started off as An entrepreneur he started off very Strong but as he fell for example to my Mom's frame he slowly just slowly got a Little bit more you know just appeasing Where essentially he didn't want my mom And dad to go out and scream so he would Go ahead and be like okay dear happy Wife happy life all of these things And before you know it again he just Lost confidence in himself he started Drinking he started you know seeking Feminine energy from for example alcohol He started throwing his entire mind into Work he started getting more stressed And literally when I saw my dad just Kind of do all of that you know I saw Him kind of get older before my eyes Because the fact that he wasn't aligned He wasn't doing the things that he loved He wasn't you know doing the things that Were aligned with his values because Deep down he's an entrepreneur and it Was just very interesting to go ahead And see because you know Mom and Mom Would have like more and more demands
Dad would just continually appease a Piece of Peace no matter what my dad did Mom would still be angry and angry and Angry and Mom would Alice always bring Me in said hey you know don't be like Your dad your dad is lazy your dad is You know not working hard your dad is Going to make us lose a bunch of money And me just you know listening to the Programming of my mom And me thinking okay well maybe I got to Go ahead and do the opposite of that but Again it's literally because of the Respect thing it's literally because of The respect thing before you could Actually feel everyone else's cup you Need to make sure that your cup is Filled first and again I learned this Behavior from Mom and Dad I learned this Behavior from Mom and Dad like all People learn their communication Patterns for Mom and Dad and I realized If I wanted something different then I Could not adopt the same communication Patterns as my parents and again the Reason why is because my dad stopped Focusing on growing and becoming the Best version of himself and instead he's Focused on trying to you know call my Mom whenever she would have like you Know conflict or arguments right So again I learned this and I took this Into all other aspects of my Relationship I remember in high school
Right I dated this girl and the first Time I met her I was like oh man she's Like beautiful I'm literally I'm gonna Become the best boyfriend ever that was Literally my mindset I was like I'll be The best boyfriend ever and essentially What happened is I won her over and she Became my girlfriend and I literally did My best to become the best boyfriend Ever I was like I'm gonna give her an Amazing life I'm gonna go ahead and make Sure that she never is sad I'm gonna Make sure I wipe away her tears like in All the programming that you know Probably your mom told you or for Example the movies told you and for some Reason every single time when I had that Frame of on become the best boyfriend Ever right literally as the relationship Went forward for some reason I was in Respected there were times where for Example she would go ahead and you know Like do all these things and like it Disrespected me but again because I want To be the best boyfriend ever and I Didn't want to be like my dad I was like You know what I I'm going to go ahead And for example make sure that I'm okay With everything I have an open mind all These things and when I went and did That for some reason she lost respect For me too much to the point where she Literally just left me for some other Guy this is literally the first time
Now again I was like oh this will never Happen again this will never happen Again so obviously life is like a Pendulum so you swing off to the other Side so after that I literally just Started dating like crazy I started Reading all these books about like like How to pick up girls at the mall and all That stuff I just went all in on healing That pain with by talking to as many Women as possible to prove to myself That maybe maybe you know that person That hurt me in the past she was wrong And maybe I could actually validate the Fact that I'm not that man that got left By like for example woman so obviously As I went in sheer action and started Talking to a bunch of women my Confidence grew and then I was like you Know what I'm done with this life I want To go ahead and you know find a good Girl and accidentally first year of College orientation week I saw this Beautiful blonde and I was like you know What this girl is beautiful ended up Dating her for like three or four years And again same thing happened I told Myself I'm gonna become the best Boyfriend ever I'm become the best Boyfriend ever First two years was fine but for some Reason on the second two years again What ended up happening I started Getting less and less and less respect
From her I started feeling more Anxiousness and anxiety and and just Like frustration about the relationship And I was wondering why can't it just go Back to what it was used to right and The reason why I realized all these Relationships were going by is maybe it Started off good but as the life went Forward with the relationship I started Doing what was familiar which is just Adopting the behavior of mom and dad Right so odds are if you are a nice guy You probably learned how to be a nice Guy from your father right or your Mother your mother told you what she Didn't like about your father and you're Like I'm going to be a nice guy that's Essentially what happens right and as You start doing that there's a reason Why you disrespect yourself more because You were literally becoming the thing That your mother told you was not good Right so how do you actually go ahead And get out of this right how do you Actually do this well you need to become A man worthy of respect so again this Happened another time right so literally When the the the thing happened where The disease went around and that there Was like huge lockdowns I thought it was A great idea to oh let me go ahead and Move my girlfriend in so I was dating This Russian girl at the time moved Right now I was like this is gonna be
Great we're gonna make love all the time She's gonna cook me food I can just Focus on work and it was great for maybe Like a year but after a year what Happened I fell into the the natural Familiarity of being a Mr Nice Guy but Just modeling what my mom and dad did on Their relationship and what happened is I started being lost in terms of respect And I wasn't being respected in the way That I was in the beginning of Relationship this happens in most Relationships the woman can respect you A lot in the beginning but for some Reason you wonder why as time goes by She literally loses respect for you and It's not again her fault it's your fault As a man for getting off the path of Becoming a man worthy of respect now What do I actually mean by this how do You actually crawl myself out of that Because after that relationship it was Just really really bad man I was hiring like Tantra coaches and Doing all these things and I'm like Freaking crying in front of like my girl Because I hired this coach and this Coach was like oh you need to cry in Front of your woman and I was like oh This is gonna be great but for some Reason as I started going and deeper and Deeper and deeper trying to go ahead and Fix this relationship and get it back to The beginning for some reason she did
Not respect me later on in the Relationship as she did in the beginning And I started realizing well it's all my Fault so how did this happen how did This happen well the reason why it did Not happen is because I did not call her Out in the first moment of ungratitude And disrespect I did not call her out The first time she went and was Ungrateful and the first time that she Was disrespectful for me and obviously When you don't call something out it Starts getting worser and worser and Worser and worser and worse and worser And the reason why a relationship sucks Right now is because you did not call Her out on her disrespect or her lack of Gratefulness way way back and I Understand this I literally understand This right if you really kind of look Into this the reason why you know for Example girls are angry at you if you Live together and you put the toilet Seat down and she's like you didn't you Forgot putting the toilet seat down and She's freaking out she's not mad at the Toilet seat she's mad at something that You did months ago years ago and she Didn't actually release that negative Energy inside of you it's exact same Thing with you the reason why you feel Frustration you feel anxiety you feel Maybe depression is because you allowed Some type of disrespect and lack of
Gratefulness to happen months ago years Ago and you did not speak up because you Were afraid of conflict this happened All the time right so I can literally Walk you through the moment when I had Disrespect and lack of gratitude so Essentially what happened I moved this Girl in and essentially what happened is I was paying for everything I was paying For everything and as she got accustomed To that life she started showing signs Of lack of gratefulness just because she Got used to the lifestyles it's Literally like hedonic adaptation you Get used to the lifestyle that you live And what I should have done in the past Was call her out when she was at it but Instead what I ended up doing was when She literally got used to the life and She was like you know what I want to I Want a piece of jewelry it was like an Expensive piece of jewelry and she was Like in my culture all my family and on My friends if a man truly loves loves The woman he's going to go ahead and get This expensive jewelry it was in that Moment that I knew we were going to have A conflict my business was kind of going Down in that moment and I was afraid of Saying no right but I knew that I had to Say no because it was in the best Financial decision right but again she Would look at me and she said well this Is how you show your love to me this is
How you show you to your left me and Then she started crying and then because I didn't want her to cry because the Behavior that I learned from Mom and Dad Oh when Mom is crying when Mom's causing Uh like a conflict I need to go to a Teaser I I literally went from no to a Yes And that was the moment that was the Moment when the disrespect actually Happened because I didn't respect myself Enough to actually go ahead and say no And I wanted to say no does that make Sense and again it literally started From there it literally started from There when I should have done was Literally call her out for the lack of Gratitude that she had for me providing For everything and for her to realize That actually my business is going down Now is not the actual time to go and do That again it's not her fault it's Really my fault that I did not hold a Strong you know space for me to actually Go ahead and protect and provide for her Right it happened again right like even Like for example Just recently I was like for example in Dubai right and I literally brought like A girl that I was like seeing at the Time and we were going ahead and we were Just traveling and one of my buddies Like got us you know the fast pass so Literally we were going and all of these
People in this water park they were all Cutting the lines and or they were they Were all waiting in line to go ahead and Go into this slide for like a minute Like they're literally spending 30 Minutes in a ride or 40 minutes ride we Literally got the fast pass right so We're literally cutting through all the Lines it's only taking a second to go And get into line and getting on the Ride and literally it's like we had such A good thing where everyone else was Waiting to be in line we would just Automatically get in and just go on the Ride right and I remember the girl was Like oh we were on these like body Slides right it was one of these body Slides where it's kind of like this Little yoga mat but you use it to kind Of slide down and she literally was like Oh mine is kind of old and it was in That moment I didn't snap at her but I Told her don't be ungrateful like don't Be ungrateful do you understand like We're literally in Dubai going down this This this water slide all these people Are online and you're complaining about The fact that your little yoga mat Slider thing is old right now I didn't Say angrily I didn't say with an Emotionally chargedness in my voice I Literally just said hey just don't be Ungrateful do you understand like all The things that are happening right now
We're coming through line we're in Dubai Right and and you're not grateful for This and obviously she just understood That right but again it's not the Responsibility of the woman to Constantly be reminded that she's Grateful it's the responsibility of the Man to ground everyone surround them on The harsh reality of life and the Blessings that we have because we Literally work so hard as a team the Same thing happens with kids man if the Kids get used to a life they literally Become spoiled and of course they become Ungrateful no matter how it is that you Work it's because you don't call them Out the moment they disrespect you or You the moment that they were ungrateful You got to constantly do this constant Do this for everyone else around you It's not just essentially a woman it's Men it's kids if you have them the Moment they actually have any type of Lack of gratitude or any type of Disrespect you need to call them out on It because remember no matter how much Safe and secure you make them feel you Will never feel loved because for a man To feel loved he needs to be respected And the reason why a man does not feel Respected is because he allows Disrespect does that make sense so Another thing is you need to go out and Stop dating girls with red flags as they
Will make it easy for you to fall back Into being a nice guy so girls with red Flags are essentially girls that have Unresolved trauma with for example their Father and their mother and they're Bringing it out on you so odds are they Probably we have similar behaviors as Your mother and for some reason many of The guys they say oh you know like like People are destined to fall into the Same relationship as their parents Because they will literally bring the Worst out of someone that can clearly be Healthy right so obviously you need to Go ahead and focus on your red flags When you go out and date girls make sure That they're not essentially having Blatant red flags play tent red flags Where the disrespect and the lack of Gratitude are way away shown earlier but You know you can't see them because the Lovemaking is just way too good right So you need to understand that like it Also helps when you go ahead and just Stop dating girls that have all the red Flags right you got to go ahead and Figure that out another one is maybe Finding the right girl with respect that Will actually respect you with a Religious background now why is that Right now here's an example if you go And date a very religious girl right It's a lot easier to not be much of a Mr Nice Guy because traditionally they're
Just in traditional gender roles right And ever since they were younger they Understand the importance of gratitude And to not disrespect for example their Men here's an example right in for Example Islam right in Islam in their Spiritual text they say that they have Seen The Souls of the dwellings of the Souls in hell and they are filled with Souls of women that were ungrateful so Understand that like dating a woman Where essentially ever since she was Younger she has that in the back of her Mind where it's like oh I better be not Grateful because you know I'll be Banished into the the I'll literally be Banished to hell that's essentially what All these texts are saying or for Example you literally have like other Texts where Lilith who was Adam's first Wife essentially was the first feminist She was make made with for example the Same dust as him and essentially she was The first feminist and she literally Became a demon and was banished to hell I just imagined dating someone was like Oh well I shouldn't be like that because I'll literally be banished right or Where they exactly know where you know Adam and Eve were living a good life in The Garden of Eden and essentially what Happened is the snake came and tempted Eve the state came and tempted Eve where Essentially they say the Temptation
Comes into the home through the woman Right and essentially what happens is That Temptation has happened from lack Of respect and lack of gratitude and to Understand that you know a lot of this Is ingrained in them ever since they Were young where they know like deep Down okay I should always be grateful For my blessings I should always count My blessings I should always be grateful And that's what I found when I you know Focus on dating just really religious Girls from religious backgrounds is they Are truly grateful for everything they Are truly grateful for everything and When they're truly great grateful for Everything that you go ahead and provide For them no matter how big or small it's Very easy to feel respect and at that Point when you feel respect you feel Love does that make sense but again most Most men they're like oh well that girl Has big boobs Oh that girl has nice butt I should probably go ahead and marry her But they don't actually go and see well Does this girl has the same values as me Right well maybe if she doesn't have the Same values as me maybe we shouldn't be Together again many men fall into the Relationship not because the woman has The same values as them many men fall in A relationship just because she has the Nicest boobs and the nicest butt and the Prettiest face but it's really idiotic
Like why would you go and spend time Maybe your entire life with someone just Because of her nice body and not because Of the values that she has right and you Wonder why you have relationship Problems it just doesn't make sense to Me another one is dating is like trial And marriage if you're with a girl for a Long time and she does not wifey Material you are wasting your time Understand this dating is like trial Marriage if you're a woman for a long Time and you're not thinking about Starting a family with her or you know Raising a family with her or having kids With her you are literally not wasting Your time you're also wasting her time As well and it's also worse on her Because most women they literally need To have kids like before 30 right before 30 or it literally becomes like Unhealthy and here you are wasting her Time because you're just dating around And you're just dating around and it's a Little bit causing more and more trauma For everybody so understand this dating Is like trial marriage every single time A day to go you got to ask yourself what Happens if she accidentally gets Pregnant And if you're like well whoa I hope she Doesn't get pregnant then why are you With her why are you with if you're so Worried that your girl might
Accidentally become pregnant and why are You with her why are you with her every Single date that you are on every single Time you date a woman is literally like A trial of marriage and a trial mother Of your child and here you are wondering Why you're starting a family with Someone you know that you don't really Want to be with and you're actually Getting her pregnant it's because You're not having this long-term mindset You know there's so many guys that I Know that started making a lot and a lot And a lot of money they had this you Know for example they accidentally got This girl accidentally pregnant why ah Just because it just felt so good and Now you know they have to go ahead and Have more responsibility they have to go Ahead and for example provide for Someone that doesn't even respect them Because they didn't think more long term Right you got to understand that every Single time you date someone it is Literally like trial marriage you got to Go ahead and not fall into certain Things and another one is you need to Learn how to handle handle arguments and Conflicts this is a nice guy's weakness Now again when I was younger I was Afraid of for example getting into an Argument with a woman getting into a Conflict with a woman but that is life Life is nothing but conflict life is
Nothing but having an argument with the Universe you wanting one thing and the Universe giving you something else and You're gonna expect that conflict and Argument's not going to happen right if Arguments and conflicts happen in just Your day-to-day life it's probably going To happen with your relationships as Well and what you need to understand is Not avoid them not to go ahead and run Away from them but understand that Arguments and conflicts are a normal Part of a relationship and you seem to Know exactly how to navigate them so how Do you actually navigate them number one Don't freaking complain number two don't Actually be emotionally charged when a Woman is actually angry at you you Probably shouldn't match her level of Intensity because if you match your Level intensity you're nothing but you Know for example an emotional being as Well you're literally showing very Feminine traits as a man if you react Emotionally to certain things that's not A masculine trait that is a feminine Trait right and essentially what happens Is when you emotionally react to a woman Who's also emotionally reacting to you She gets even more angry because she's Like what am I doing I I literally Wanted to be with a man and now I'm Arguing with a woman right that's Literally what she's thinking when
You're emotionally being triggered by Her so essentially what happens when the Argument or conflict happens you need to Be calm You need to allow her to go through her Emotional chaos and usually to stick With logic you got to stick with logic You got to go ahead and take all of the Fog of the motions and once she releases All of that energy because it's not Directed to you just women just wants to Feel emotions You got to go ahead and bring her back Down by you remaining calm and grounded By you remaining calm and grounded Making sure that she is heard making Sure that you validate certain amounts Of her feelings and once she calms down That is when you have a logical Conversation but if you're trying to Have a logical conversation and and She's kind of like emotionally peaked it Doesn't matter what logic you have you Are still wrong in her mind because She's still in an emotional Peak state Which is why to get her out of the Emotional Peak State you need to not be Emotionally peaked yourself so again if A woman goes ahead and argues with you Again the Mr Nice Guy's like no no no Baby baby don't worry don't worry like Okay I'll give you whatever you want but A real man essentially what would you Allow her woman to go ahead and feel
Those those Peaks and values but Essentially get her back to the point Where she's kind of calm and then you Have another logical conversation that's Really it the thing that really helped Me to go out and do that is creating Time and money freedom so I can Literally find out all the things that Was wrong with me when I was younger so I don't have to make the same mistakes Which is why if you really want to go in And create time and money freedom check Out the links below if you want to go And start an e-commerce business check Out the third link if you want to start A personal brand check out the second Link if you want to find the fast and Easiest way to make money online check Out the first link in the link below