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Here are 5 relationship red flags you should never ignore.
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Whenever like I wouldn't answer back Right away whenever I was like gone for Maybe like a week or two because I had To go and go through some business trips She would already start freaking out Because she felt like I abandoned her Kind of like how her father was not There when she was younger Now Understand this everything else in the Relationship was fine everything that Was real was perfectly healthy but she Took what was not real like for example Her relationship with her father and she Took that into our relationship [Music] If you're in a lot of pain in your Relationship right now odds are is you Probably were avoiding the obvious red Flags are just constantly hitting you in The face if you're a man maybe you're Avoiding the red flags because maybe She's just had nice boobs and a nice Butt if you're a woman avoiding for Example the red flags maybe he was just Really good at love making but obviously If you're in pain right now and you're Probably watching this video you Probably had some type of red flag that You went unnoticed just because the Feelings were good oh and it just felt Good when we were together but here's The thing that you need to understand When it comes to love you don't fall in Love with what is healthy with you you
Fall in love with what is familiar to You what do I actually mean by that do You understand that if you do not Understand the trauma you had with your Mom and dad that you will be forced and Cursed to relive the same amount of pain That they had in the relationship oh mom And dad always fought out about the Money oh Mom would always blame my dad For things oh Dad would always blame my Mom for things and you would adopt the Way that they communicated with each Other which probably wasn't the best Thing if you're watching this video and You're adopting that and putting it into All the relationships that you have Which is why if you're dating someone And you're with someone and you realize Well maybe there's a red flag here There's not a red flag there right the Odds are there is a red flag there and You just didn't catch it earlier on so What were kind of like the red flags That I kind of noticed whenever I focus On for example dating right and it Doesn't matter if you're a man or a Woman this is literally in all compasses Of Life the first one is her friends Right so for the majority of people that Watch this they're gonna go ahead and be Man but this also works for women as Well right if you are curious on who Your woman is or naturally who will Become who are her friends who are our
Friends right if you want a girl that Could be a future mother of your child And her friends are literally all of These girls just get drunk on the Weekends you know doing a bunch of Degenerative Behavior guess what your Woman is or will become that literally That so it doesn't matter if a woman is Very very very very very very good right Now if she has degenerate friends and She spends more time with them she will Literally become them do you understand That and this happens all the time all The time all the time so I remember you Know I was like dating this one girl Right She was like a really really good girl Like really really good girl and Essentially what happened is we would go Out to the club why because I go to the Club I have to go out and entertain People when they go ahead and come and Visit me so obviously the best way to Entertain them is going and bringing Them to club and getting them drunk and Introducing them to the girls into town Right so I started to go ahead and bring Her because I want to go ahead and bring Her and I don't want to go and talk to The girls in the club because I want Something serious and I can't find Something serious in the club and it was Very very interesting right when they Went and hung out at the club I noticed
That this girl that was really really Good was befriending all these girls That weren't so good right they're Adding each other on Instagram they're Like oh let's go hang out baby girl all These things and then before you know it I slowly saw that good girl After weeks and months of hanging out to Slowly become like those girls that I Didn't want to become like right so Again you got to understand that a Woman's friend is is literally going to Go ahead and be a sign of who she will Become it's the exact same thing with a Man if I spend time with people that are Unhealthy and overweight guess what I'll Become eventually unhealthy and Overweight if I become if I spend most Of the time with people that have no Money sense guess what will happen to me I'll probably make less and less money But if I spend time with people that are Better that make more money than me I Will naturally become better if I spend Time with people that are better in Shape than me I will naturally become Better right So essentially a sign that a woman has Red flags is literally at her friends And what you need to go ahead and do is Just make sure that she just you you let Her know this is how you live your life And she should focus on just focus on Bringing the best quality people in her
Life why because if she's gonna be the Future mother of your child you want her To also teach the same to your kids Because if your kids around you know the People that are just getting into drugs Doing bad things when they're younger Guess what your kid's gonna go out and Do it's so simple it's common sense but Yet we forget it right women literally Will become their friend group and Essentially what happens is you need to Do one of two things number one you go Ahead and tell her that this is Essentially what would happen right and Like if you were gonna go ahead and stay Together you probably shouldn't go ahead And hang around those people or just too Just date girls that don't live in big Cities the problem with big cities is it Generally is filled with a lot of Degenerate Behavior because there's so Much things to go ahead and do go ahead And date a village girl go ahead and go To a place that doesn't have a crazy Nightlife if you're probably in Miami New York and Las Vegas and you're like I Can't find a good girl well maybe it's Because you've been living in a city for Too long right go out into like the Suburbs or to literally some of the Villages find yourself a good girl there Now what else do you need to go ahead And do right well the next thing that You understand that also is a red flag
Is a cracked phone I know this is very Weird what a crack film if a girl has a Cracked phone it is a huge red flag Because here is something that she Values with the most she literally uses This to communicate with the world and Get validation from the world in terms Of social media and if her phone is Cracked and this is the most valuable Thing that she has then what does that Show you about herself what does that Show you about having her being Responsible for what the future mother Of your child to be responsible for your Kids if a girl's biggest prize Possession is her phone and it is Cracked what does that show you and how She's going to treat something with a Bigger responsibility like I don't know A family or a child or other Responsibilities a girl with a cracked Phone is a big red flag to me the third One is anger with her father and lack of Overcoming that anger right so if a Woman actually has anger towards her Father if a woman has anger towards her Father and it's not resolved Audra she's Going to bring that anger on to you why Is that her relationship with the Masculine is usually learned from her Father right so she had a father or she Didn't have a father she learned what it Was like to feel love or lack of love From that man essentially what happens
If she hasn't resolved that trauma she's Going to go ahead and throw that up unto You here's an example I was dating this Girl And this girl when she was younger her Father wasn't there right so that was Innately very very difficult to go on Date right because she hasn't resolved The trauma with her father essentially Not being there right so essentially What would happen is when we would date And we would be together whenever like I Wouldn't answer back right away whenever I was like gone for maybe like a week or Two because I had to go and go through Some business trips she would already Start freaking out she would already Start freaking out because she felt like I abandoned her kind of like how her Father was not there when she was Younger Now understand this like Everything else in the relationship was Fine everything that was real was Perfectly healthy but she took what was Not real like for example her Relationship with her father and she Took that into our relationship Now again it's not just women that do This men do this as well men and women Take what they're naturally used to from What they learn from their mother and Their father and they bring it into the Relationship right Again for example women it's like a lot
Like like what you need to understand is If you're dating a woman that has Unresolved trauma and issues with her Father right and she has technically Daddy issues she will bring those daddy Issues into your relationship she will Go ahead and bring that this is why like If you really want to go and date like a Really really nice girl you need to find Out what is her relationship with her Father is it a healthy relationship was It a father that was very strong and you Know very strict and maybe came from a Religious background a leader in his Family if that was the father and the Example that your woman essentially had When she was younger she will naturally Gravitate to those behaviors which Essentially is good for you because then You know for example it just makes you More of the man it makes you more of the Leader it brings out more masculine Qualities in you but if a woman had kind Of like a challenging upbringing and the Father wasn't present it is very very Hard to for example you know have a Long-term healthy relationship unless She goes and heals that unless she Overcomes that and resolves that but for The most time if women don't go ahead And for example resolve the trauma that They had from their father they will Bring the toxicity of their relationship Into yours no matter how healthy your
Relationship is is if the woman hasn't Overcome that she will literally bring That into yours and you're going to Wonder why oh why isn't my relationship Working out it's because one of you guys Have unresolved trauma maybe both of you Guys don't have a resolved trauma and You're literally bringing other people's Baggage into your relationship right Another one that you need to go ahead And understand that is also a big red Flag is multiple painful breakups Multiple painful breakups why is that Every single multiple painful breakup What happens is it creates like a little Trauma body inside of you right same Thing with your parents right so Essentially the first trauma that was Ever caused was for Mom and Dad and Already like what we've talked about That's already hard enough to overcome Right your first painful trauma that was Ever given to you was when you were born And seeing the trauma that you've Learned from your mother and your father And how they essentially learn how to Love each other right so that is the Deepest deepest deepest problem and most People spend an entire lifetime Overcoming that trauma but then you add Multiple painful relationship breakups And guess what happens more trauma more Trauma more trauma more trauma people Taking the trauma from their past
Relationship and bringing it into their Present relationship and as that baggage Keeps on growing and growing and growing It becomes harder and harder and harder To have a very healthy relationship Because what's going to happen is you're Going to be in a relationship and you're Going to be perfectly fine but you might Do one little thing that reminds her of A past boyfriend that may be like did Some type of similar behavior and she's Going to be angry at you for no reason She's gonna be angry at you for Something her boyfriend did in the past She's gonna be angry at you for Something her dad did in the past right The more painful breakups someone has The harder it is to essentially pair Bond and create like a long-term healthy Relationship again it could still work But she has to do the work herself it's Not your responsibility go ahead and do The the Deep work hurts for her right You go and support her you could go and Create good space for her but Essentially what happens is if someone That you were dating had a lot of Painful mistakes it's kind of like all That negativity kind of like locked in In their body where essentially the next Time you do something that reminds them Of their past they're going to go ahead And for example do this as well does That make sense another one that you
Need to go ahead and understand is lack Of gratitude and respect for a man to Feel loved he needs to be respected for A woman to feel loved she needs to feel Safe and secure the big red flag is Whenever you do something there is no Respect and there is no gratefulness for Example right like I just came from Dubai right so Dubai is very interesting Because there's a lot of women used to a Certain aspect of life right right if I Was gonna go and date a woman in Dubai And I literally go ahead and for example Get a Lambo and she literally walks in And saved my Lambos like for example White and she literally walks in and Sits and she's like um I prefer blue Lambos like Do you understand we're in like a we're In Dubai we're in this like amazing Beautiful city everything here is like Luxury you can't even be grateful for The fact that this car can get us from Point A to point B very very fast but More so you're you have a lack of Gratitude just because it's not your Favorite color it's just not your Favorite color like that is a huge red Flag that is a huge red flag any sign of Lack of gratitude or lack of respect for Something as small as even getting them Dinner Should be a big red flag because You allow that disrespect to happen a
Lack of great gratefulness happening you Have a long-term relationship with this Person you will never feel happy you Will constantly spend all of your time Making sure she feels safe and secure But for some reason you're going to get More and more disrespected at yourself Because you are not feeling respected as A man and it really stems with the fact That this girl didn't have the Gratitude And the respect that you deep down Wanted that's reason why you don't feel Good in a relationship is because a Woman doesn't respect you nor is she Grateful for the things that you do Again it's not her fault it's because You allowed it to happen earlier on and You tolerated it you don't get out of Life what you want you get out of life What you tolerate and you tolerate a Disrespect probably not just from a Woman probably from the men around you Probably from your friends probably from Every single person around you you allow Disrespect to happen and it's because You don't respect yourself so obviously If you want to go and avoid a lot of the Red flags in life it really begins with Respecting yourself and how you respect Yourself is you have to create time and Money freedom to escape working a job Doing things that you don't want to do And creating the ultimate freedom to Really focus on yourself and if you want
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