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It's kind of Man's first experience with Suffering and realizing that oh Suffering is actually good because every Single time I suffer on my bicep it Grows every single time I put myself Under this heavy weight it grows it's The best analogy for a man's life Because how a man's life works is stress And pressure and weight gets put on your Shoulder and at first it is painful but Eventually you become stronger this Happens in business that happens in Relationships every single pain that you Feel in all those aspects of life will Turn into strength eventually as long as You are patient [Music] My entire childhood was filled with a Lot of insecurities you know I was never Really confident in myself my friends Were always making fun of me I was super Asian right like a bunch of kids when I Was younger was just surrounded by a Bunch of white kids I was like the only Asian person and I had a lot of Insecurities I don't know if it was the Fact that I was really skinny I didn't Know it was because my family was really Broken poor because there are Filipino Immigrants coming from the Philippines So America had me and my sister and we Were completely had no money I didn't Know it's because I was no con I had no Confidence I didn't know what it was but
I knew deep down that I wanted something Different I wanted to become the man I Wanted to become confident I wanted to Become strong I wanted to attract women That I was attracted to right like I Didn't want to just be this loser my Entire life and I knew for me to Actually become a man I had to get rid Of a lot of like immature behaviors I Had to go ahead and grow I had to go and Suffer I had to go ahead and get through The right amount of trauma to grow into The right person to grow into a strong Person and I had to actually be Comfortable with suffering because as a Man you have to go ahead and build Yourself you don't just come out awesome You come out a loser you come out with a Bunch of handicaps you come out with a Bunch of pain you come out probably from Poor parents you probably come out with Not actually believing in yourself you Probably see other guys it's easy for Them to get girls but you probably Wonder why why is it that I can't get Girls and it starts like life as a man Starts off with a lot of pain and this Pain isn't necessarily bad but how you Deal with that pain and how you turn That pain into motivation could actually Be the best thing in your life so how Did it actually get motivated to Actually become a man how did I get Motivated to make a lot of money how did
I get motivated to travel around the World how did I get motivated to be in Like the best shape of my life What all stems with the man's journey And not even the man's Journey but the Hero's journey because every single man Ever since he was a kid goes through a Hero's journey you know like if you Watch anime or if you watch the movies Every single person goes through the Exact same thing they start off with Nothing in a small little village and Then out of nowhere a hero comes or a Mentor comes they learn from that Mentor They start learning all these things and Then they now go on like a truth-seeking Mission or a journey to actually become The best version of themselves to win The girl to save the city right all These things are pretty normal it's all Innately wired into our biology to go And go through this hero's journey and I Think many of the things that come is Actually becoming a man to becoming Someone that you're proud of when you're On your deathbed is to essentially live A life as close to that hero's journey As possible so before four you could Actually have your hero's journey guess What you got to go ahead and do man you Got to go ahead and at least train and Prepare for what you think will actually Happen so in the hero's journey for the Kid finds a mentor he's doing his own
Things try to at least develop as much Things as possibility could so what was My thing mine was actually focusing on Hitting the gym right in my hero's Journey I knew exactly for me to create Some type of respect and presence in the World to attract women in my life I need To be in a good shape like it's just It's just part of the hero's journey Name one person in a hero's journey Right from mythology from Hercules from Anything anything going through a Hero Journey where they're not in a good Shape Or they're not in a good shape right Every single man needs to focus on their Body because that is the thing that they Communicate with the world in it's kind Of Man's first experience with suffering And realizing that oh suffering is Actually good because every single time I suffer on my bicep it grows every Single time I put myself under this Heavy weight it grows it's the best Analogy for a man's life because how a Man's life works is stress and pressure And weight gets put on your shoulder and At first it is painful but eventually You become stronger so this happens in Business that happens in relationships Every single pain that you feel in all Those aspects of life will turn into Strength eventually as long as you are Patient so it all begins with the body I
Had to go and realize this because I was Freaking skinny man like I wasn't Comfortable when I was like taking my Shirt off I remember in middle school When we would have like for example Swimming pool parties and there's always Like that one big muscular kid that You're like wondering how is he freaking Muscular at freaking 12 years old and You're just a 12 year old kid that's Just like well I don't want to take my Shirt off because I'm really really Skinnier I'm really really fat or all These things so I knew earlier on And wanted to date the girls I wanted That pretty girl it's attention at the Swimming pool I wanted to go ahead and For example do all these things but it All stemmed with Getting into good shape so what did I Have to do I have to get in a good shape Man you can't you can't get out of it Now I can tell you this a lot of people Back in the day they would try to get Into good shape so they took all these Like hormones and testosterones and I Tell you this later on they're not in Good shape right now in their 20s and 30s like a lot of them are now bald and Fat so it's not about what you can do Short term but what you can do long term That your life gets better and better And better and in the hero's journey the Person doesn't take performance
Enhancing drugs he literally goes and Trains he trains in the wilderness in The forest in some type of jungle he Trains he trains and trains and trains And trains and trains so that's the Latest into what I did I focus on hitting the gym because if I Can control my emotions of not wanting To go to the gym oh it's called odds Heart odds early oh I'm tired I could Just go ahead and do it then I've Trained my body essentially to have that Response whenever I think like that in Any aspect of life Think about it if I master my Physicality because I master my emotions Of not wanting to go to the gym then When all my business is hard oh I don't Want to make the videos today oh that go Reject me I know how to handle my Emotions going to go ahead and go Forward right and it's so Primal to go Ahead and understand you're not wanting To do things to go to the gym because You don't want to do this humans want to Go ahead and live an easy life we Naturally want to be the most efficient So it doesn't if it takes not like Expanding energy then we'll just Conserve it right but once you start Feeling the suffering of the gym and you Start growing from it and you literally Start feeling the physical change in Your body you start getting the lines in
The veins you're like whoa actually if I Suffer for a long enough period of time I look like this and that's exactly what Happened to me like I was just suffering Over and over and over and over again And over and over and over again one day I looked in the mirror and I was like What the hell like now I'm in a good Shape now I got the V lines now I got The six pack now I got like the veins on My biceps But it's because I had to go ahead and Have the familiar you know just Relationship with suffering and the First relation thing that I had was Literally at the gym so what did I Actually go ahead and do to actually get In a better shape well one thing that Actually helped was for example martial Arts right so ever since I was young Like my mom and dad always put me in Some type of martial arts if it's either Like taekwondo when I was younger to Maybe Muay Thai when I was like Traveling in Thailand to jiu jitsu when I was like in Bali to maybe boxing when I was using it just like for example Because I just wanted to be good on my Feet and just be good with my hands and Just not have to do any kicks right but A lot of that is just fighting a lot of That is doing that that is probably one Of the most spiritual things that you Can go and do because quite naturally
It's like This is how they did it back in the Travel days right so understand that There's a lot of wisdom on the masculine Imperative and the masculine Journey When you just look back in like ancient Texts and ancient mythologies and Ancient Heroes Journeys a lot of that Trained in fighting Expo will probably be stronger than them And you need to make sure that you've Been training your entire life for this Person it's the exact same thing like I I like watching a bunch of anime when I Was younger so like Dragon Ball Z One Piece all that stuff guess what they're Doing man they're trading for fighting It's so ingrained like you wonder why You like watching you know cartoons or Animes or superhero movies or Marvel Movies all of them have a training Aspect of fighting so if you look up to All these people that are trading on Cartoons or animes or for example TVs or Movies why aren't you fighting why don't You at least training for martial arts Why aren't you at least doing that so That's one thing That really helped out like get me some Type of confidence it taught me a lot of Discipline there were times where like My my we call them Master Yes master Right there was one times uh one of the Persons that was essentially uh teaching
Me in attack when I was like young at Maybe 12. he put me in a split machine Man And I don't know if it was like legal at The time or not but he just kept on Cranking that he didn't do it for Anybody else he did that for me and I Was like crying I was like crying it Hurts it hurts it hurts it hurts and He's literally making me go through some Pain man it's kind of like sadistic but I learned exactly how to deal with pain I learned how to deal with things when I Didn't want otherwise times I didn't Want to go to taekwondo man those times Where I didn't want to go in and do that Right but it's like I just went every Way every day right because I knew that It was all part of the journey to Actually go ahead and grow stronger Right so you got to go and do that man Like so many times like I I I literally Was like Mom Dad I wanna I was like Watching Dragon Ball Z and I was like I Want to learn how to fight sign me up For Taekwondo right it wasn't like one Of those mcdojos right it was Essentially like from the guy straight From like Korea that was like oh my God Like really really good like really good At freaking kicks Sign me up for that and now because I Committed to that I literally had to Show up when we're sparring I'm
Literally getting punched and kicked From this other guy that's like bigger Than me and stronger than me and faster Than me I'm like this hurts I don't want To go and do this but you learn exactly How to actually deal with conflict and Struggle Literally in your physicality someone's Beating you up I can't run away I have to literally Fight back right it teaches you those Things earlier on and it was actually Really good because we didn't go crazy Like we were always like wearing like The gear and I was like really young When I was doing it but I learned Exactly how to deal with the conflict And physical conflict like way way way Earlier on to it gave me like this Natural confidence but it first like a Lot of the Journey of the hero's journey As a madness he has to be under like he Has to be comfortable in his own skin he Has to be good with his physicality so Fighting is really good another one is Like at the gym See now like I've probably done like so Many things to actually get in a really Good shape and a lot of that is probably Just like ego there were times I was Like spending five hours at the gym There's times where I would be very very Efficient now I can tell you exactly What I've done in the past the thing
That works best for me and I understand This if you have a background in Fighting you will naturally be in a good Shape if you constantly just walk 10 000 Steps a day you'll constantly in good Shape and if all you did was a bunch of Push-ups in the morning and a bunch of Pull-ups right before you ate You understands me in a good shape right So now that's really what I did but back In the day like I I I over complicated Everything right I over complicated Everything because I was like oh I need To go ahead and rush to go ahead and be In the best shape you don't the habits That you do on a daily basis for your Fitness will essentially give you the Body that it is that you wanted right so That was like the biggest thing but I Tried so many different things so Taekwondo and fighting kind of helped Give the base And then I just started weightlifting I Remember I got into gymnastics because I Was like well gymnasts are big I think That's what made me put on the most Amount of weight because I was always on My hands I was constantly liking Handstands and push-ups and pull-ups and I was doing a bunch of body weight but That was I think when I got the most Progress in my body and my physique I Was literally at the gym for years Nothing was big nothing got better right
But I literally did gymnastics for a Couple months learned a backflip learned Their handstand and for some reason my Body just started getting bigger because I was naturally just spending more time Using my upper body right I think I Gained like like a lot of weight that Was the first time that I started I went From like 130 to like 150 right because I was just always on my like upper hands Right and this is just like not taking Any I was just eating chicken Rice potatoes and maybe some creatine at That time right this is like literally When I was like young this is when Creatine was like bad don't take Reaching you're cheating right because It's like back in the day so then I got Into a good physicality where it's like And now I was like comfortable within my Own skin now I wasn't that loser at the Swimming pool where I was afraid to take Off my shirt and now I just wanted to Show off my body that's where the Initial confidence happened and once you Actually have that The main reason why you wanted that Actually was to get girls so obviously The next step that I wanted to go and do From there was just like understand my Relationship Dynamics with women right So obviously in this period of time I Remember looking at a bunch of like Pickup guys on like YouTube and I'm like
Oh they're going out to the malls to Talk to girls so I remember I was like 16 17 just talking to the girls at you Know just the malls so let me just go Ahead and talk to girls I'm like talking To them I'm 16. I'm like doing this Weird peacocking thing where I have this Pink balloon to like my belt loop Because I was like well I need to go and Stick out to these girls to go ahead and For example win their attention and Their attraction it was stupid it was Stupid all the old school things from The old school pickup days in the past It's dumb and stupid you're peacocking You're wearing goggles you're wearing Balloons you're doing magic tricks all These things magic tricks are still cool I'm so like really Keen about the magic But all those things are just like all Those things but what it taught me to do And learn was actually get comfortable With for example talking to girls this Is it you know it's like I got the Physicality I wanted to go ahead and get The girls And obviously when I couldn't get the Girls I realized I'll actually go ahead And can prove here I have having the Six-pack yet for some reason the girl Doesn't like me yet so maybe it was Never the six-pack to begin with maybe That's just one aspect of life maybe I Actually have to learn how to
Communicate with for example women so Obviously when you just start going to The mall every single day and just Talking to girls you start learning Exactly what makes them laugh what makes Them not laugh and then you start Building some type of personality to you Right so now I'm building some type of Personality now essentially what I Wanted at this time is I want to go Ahead and find a damsel in distressed Saver and travel around the world so Now I have my fitness right now I Understand how to talk to girls now I'm In college and essentially I'm dating This girl I'm like this is great I want To go and travel around the world with The show but guess what I had no money I know money so the next step was oh I Need to figure out how to make money it Usually stems in that order and first You want to go and pick up girls so you Realize you're not confident you look at Your body so you first focus on your Body then you get a good body then you Start learning how to go out and talk to Girls you get good at talking to girls And you're like whoa I don't have any Money it'd be cool if I had some money Maybe I should go ahead and make more Money so then you go ahead and focus on Money so then after I have my fitness Right after I had my relationship Dynamics with a woman somewhat right it
Wasn't the best but it was somewhat Right I at least learned how to actually Know how to talk to them the next step Was I had to get my money right the only Problem was To become a dentist I would have to be Hundreds and thousands of dollars in Debt and I would have to wait decades My parents were like you have to become A dentist you know this is your destiny As an Asian immigrant in America you Have to become a doctor dentist or a Nurse this is how you're going to bring Pride to us and they had a different Hero's journey for me I didn't want that here's journey I Wanted my own I wanted to go ahead and Get on my own adventure in life and meet Cool people so I was like no screw this I need to go and make money so in a span Of a year I ended up Dropping out of Dental school actually the summer before The first semester and I ended up Breaking up with the girlfriend that I Had at the time because I just wasn't The man worthy of building something Like that the reason why is because I Didn't understand things about myself I Didn't understand how to deal with Long-term emotions I didn't understand I Deal with conflict and arguments in the Relationship that we had really good Earlier on
And in a very bad because in long-term Relationships if you didn't have a Healthy relationship with your parents Or your parents didn't have a Relationship with each other you adopt Their relationship patterns to your own That's why every single person that you Date will eventually look like your Mother eventually or if you're a woman Every single person that you date will Eventually become like your father Because you are doing the behaviors that You learn from your parents and if your Mom did a certain Behavior your dad's Gonna become someone because of your Mind's behavior same way in the other End if your dad if you adopted your Dad's Behavior your mom became someone Because of your dad's Behavior we're Kind of like these amoebas where we ebb And fall off of each other and we give Each other energy and we take each other Energy and you've literally become a Direct reflection for your parents's Relationship so I was like okay My relation's not working so I have to Go and leave that I need to go and make Money so I dropped out of done school And now I'm literally now at this worst Part of the hero's journey where my life Completely sucks And here I am now in a good shape here I Am you know like with this girl now I Lost the girl
Lost the money opportunity because I Didn't want to be a dentist Lost the support from my family now I'm Alone so in my hero's journey I'm Freaking alone man I feel like a loser No one wants to talk to me all my Friends in college that are drinking They think I'm crazy because now I'm Like reading books now I'm trying to Grow now I'm like stuck in the cave Learning more things and just learning All these things it was like one of the Most painful periods of my life my Parents thought I was crazy right Because it was just like why did you Leave I I got accepted in a dental School when I was 18 years old do you Understand like how big of a deal that Is for Asians right and for me to just Leave the summer before dental school It was just it was just crazy right so In this period of life in your hero's Journey you will be tested because Everyone else around you will think that You're crazy your friends your Girlfriend your ex-girlfriend your Parents they literally think that you Are crazy Because they can't see what you see what Did I want I want an adventure man I Want to live life like Goku like Dragon Ball Z like Luffy from one piece I like All these Heroes that I had when I was Younger looking at them like in anime
Watching all these cartoons and like Seeing them I wanted to live that life Right But my entire life wasn't an adventure You're telling me I'm gonna have an Adventure as a dentist are you freaking Kidding me Everyone thought I was freaking crazy But this is all part of the hero's Journey the world needs to not believe In you Until you believe in yourself and you Become a man that gets results and then You become a man worth believing by the World You see this over and over again I was Looking at anime all the time when I was Younger like things like Naruto things Like Dragon Ball Z things like one piece And in every aspect of the story when The hero was younger the world didn't Believe them The word didn't believe him he was like Here's this weirdo here's this loser This person can't swim this person is Weak this person's too nice this person Is evil like all these things But for some reason there was this Innate sense of adventure in the kid and The kid went got stronger from training From learning Dynamics with a bunch of Different things got powerful and gave Back to the world and now the world Respects him but in the beginning the
World for this person Disrespected this person didn't believe In this person didn't think this person Could amount to much right that's why I Was like so resonated with all these Like freaking animes when I was younger Because I was like I don't want to be Like that right So here's this period in my hero's Journey where the world didn't believe In me the closest people to me didn't Believe in me and this is when you Really start knowing exactly who you are Because when the world is on your side When you're drinking with your friends When you know your mom and dad support You because you're going to be a dentist And they want this for you it's easy to Adopt your identity based off of what Everyone perceives you to be so then You're like okay well this is just me my Friends think I'm the drinker so I'll be The Drinker my friends think I'm the guy That talks to girls at the club so I'm Gonna be the guy that talks to the girls At clubs my parents think I'm they're Not the song to be the dentist But when you you lose I guess proximity And closeness with people around you The entire identity that they give you Shatters and now you're like well If I'm no longer this thing that people Say I am the dentist the person that's Going to be the person at the club the
Bars the person that's you know drinking At the weekend What if I just create my own identity What if I just create my own personality What if I just create the own person That is that I am what if I just go Ahead and do that instead So that's really what I did I was like Okay I need to go ahead and become Something different how do I go ahead And become something different I have to Train again but obviously in this period Of my time I had no money I know money to go and train it's hard For me to train to become a hero but I Was living at home with Mom and Dad so The first thing that I did go ahead and Do because now my fitness and Physicality resume now I at least Understood the broad spectrum of Relationship Dynamics with women I need to go and create Freedom so how To go ahead and create freedom for Myself in this time one of the ways that I did was with an online business I had An online business at the time where Essentially was actually weird how I Actually stumbled upon this right Because I did so many freaking online Businesses in college I was like Drop Shipping things on eBay to Amazon that Was the first thing actually the first Thing that actually didn't make money Was network marketing
Network marketing was very interesting Because It teaches you how to lose all of your Friends so essentially what it is is Network marketing everyone thinks it's a Pyramid everyone thinks you're crazy but You're just trying to go ahead and make Money so I literally got recruited for This network marketing company and now They told me to pitch all of my friends Products so this is why I lost all my Friends because I started thinking like This and I'm like oh well my friends are Probably gonna think like this too they Didn't They wanted Safety and Security I wanted Adventure and fun and I told them about This and they're like no and they Thought I was crazy they thought I was Crazy I lost this is how I lost all my Friends this is literally the first time That I lost all my friends and because I Lost all my friends and I couldn't sell Them on my opportunity anymore I had to Go ahead and go into the Facebook groups I was like let me go ahead and you know Go into a bunch of pickup forums and a Bunch of like Robert Kiyosaki forums a Bunch of Tony Robbins forums and I'm Like these guys are under personal Development let me go ahead and recruit Them and when I started recruiting some Of these people One of them was like well I don't do
Network marketing I do e-commerce and I'm like what the heck is freaking E-commerce well I sell things on eBay I'm like what I thought I literally Thought that only garage sellers sell on EBay and you know these people are like Saying no like I sell on eBay this is Literally exactly what I do I'm like oh Tell me more about it and I just found Out that he's like selling things on EBay and I started realizing every Single time I bought things on eBay it Came from Amazon boxes so I was freaking Drop shipped right and I started doing That I got to the point where I was Making 100 a day and then I took that Money and I started getting into Amazon And that turned into like 700 a day and Then I lost one money with that so I Started learning advertising so I Started getting the advertising and Selling physical products and that's Exactly when everything changed when I Learned exactly how to Market and Advertise I went from zero to 1.5 Million in 12 months And that was like the craziest thing I Started getting my time Freedom back I Started getting my time Freedom back so When the money started happening what Was next for my hero's journey was it to Stay at home in my little town no it was Out there to go and find mentors So that's what I did for the next word
Of my life now I had all this money Because look if it had me stumbled upon The right time in a place where people She took that money and I bought a One-way trip ticket to Asia and I lived As Frugal and mediocre as possible until I could find a mentor that was Essentially it because I didn't know What I was going to do so I didn't know If all this money came I didn't know if It was gonna last forever I was freaking Freaked out because my parents they were Young man so when the money came in and My parents were Asian I was afraid that I was never gonna have money like this Again so I was super freaking food my Apartment in Chiang Mai Thailand was 200 A month I was living off of ten dollars A day I was doing a bunch of like Muay Thai and that was essentially it that Was essentially my life and I Essentially waited and waited and waited And waited and waited and waited to find A mentor I would seek this Mentor out I Would go into the jungles let's go and Find this freaking Mentor right I was Living very mediocre until I found this Mentor and eventually in Asia I found This Mentor this Mentor I found because I was invited to this like dinner table In this like crypto event in Singapore And a bunch of marketers were there they Want to go ahead and get in the crypto And my friend just freaking invited me
It was it was a friend that I randomly Met at the gym so again on your hero's Journey it doesn't make sense when you Look forward but Looking Backward Everything kind of has its place and Time and it just adds to your story into Your hero's journey right So I remember I went to the gym because I was like oh man like literally the Friend that I was traveling with he Ended up going home because he missed His friend so now I'm just alone on the Other side of the world knowing no one Completely alone and I'm like did I make The right decision did I make the right Decision you know I have all this money Now but no no surroundings making money I'm hanging around in hostels which to Live in a hostel you're surrounded by a Bunch of broke Backpackers it's like Five dollars a night I had a lot of Money in my bank account and I'm Surrounded by all these people that Aren't making any money so now I'm just Like I should just settle down I settle Down in Chiang Mai Thailand lived very Very frugally and mediocreally and Literally was just like I I had no one Else around me to go ahead and like Succeed but I was like you know what I'm Gonna go to the gym so I went to the gym I literally met some guy at the gym the First thing he said was mate your form Is horrible
I was just trying to like do my little Like heavy weights he said my form was Horrible so essentially he became like Like really close friend is he was able To call me out on something that was Doing wrong that's exactly what I want Out of life I want people to tell me When I'm doing things wrong in my life So I could not do them wrong so I don't Have to spend more time in pain He ended up becoming one of my closest Friends and he had a huge Network man he Had a huge network of people that were Really really successful and he just Started introducing me all of them so Essentially I was kind of like the Little brother out of everyone I'm like Whatever you guys need I'm going to do It and he invited me to this dinner Table in Singapore with all these Marketers and these are where I like Accidentally met my mentors where some Guy was making a million dollars a month Profit so another guy made 14 million Like seven days and something crazy like That and I'm like I found mentors So essentially for the next period of Time in life I just Shadowed them all I was like whatever it Is I'll do it for free I'm gonna go Ahead and serve you as much as possible You always need to come from a mentee Point of view a mentor and a mentee you Need to be able to just allow them to
Tell their stories talk and add value in Any given way so I saw the ways that I Could add value right We were going and we were like drunk in Like some bar in pie which is like North Like mountains of Thailand and I found Out that one of my mentors like Asian Women so I was like great I don't like Asian women but I'll go ahead and talk To a bunch of Asian women for you so I Remember just going out to the clubs and The bars just solving anything that my Mentors wanted they're like oh yeah like I like Asians I'm like fighting all the Asian girls to talk to which it was easy Because in Asia there's just a bunch of Koreans that were like in Thailand and Only talking to all these Koreans and I'm like hey have you met my mentor hey Have you met my mentor hey this guy Changed my life hey this guy changed his Life and I literally just started Throwing a bunch of girls that I was Talking to to my mentor to see if he Could find like a future mother of his Future child right that was literally Like the first thing that I did to add Value right I was just like adding value Added value adding value that was what Essentially got us to bond he was like This guy's kind of crazy man it's like Anything that I want he's going to go Ahead and do the next thing that I found To just give him value was just
Interviewing just interviewing him a lot Of mentors that are a lot older now they Just want to go and give back they want To tell their story boys and I was just Naturally curious about their story so I Would just take my iPhone and I would Record and add another phone and a Crappy camera also recording and I'm Just like using my phone as a microphone And chopping it up and editing it on my Like crappy laptop and that was Essentially how I built like the close Bond close connection where he started Giving me opportunities and making money Online opportunities all those things And this mentors teach me all these Things about life and I remember like There was just one opportunity where Like it blew up in in like a couple Weeks I made like 300K profit it was Like whoa and now essentially what Happened Was now I made a bunch of money and it Was time for me to go down my own path It's time for me to say bye to my mentor Go back on my hero's journey to then Constantly start chasing the truth about Life so here I am making a bunch of Money getting all the skills from the Mentor and I go out there into the world Thinking I was the best thing in the World the smartest person in the world And in every single hero's journey right After you learn from the mentor comes
That first big challenge that first big Trial that first big heartbreak where You thought that you were strong enough But then you got beaten by Vegeta or by Frieza and you realize you weren't as Strong as you actually thought and this Is very important in like the hero's Journey of the man because it makes you Realize that Not only do you have to learn the the The wisdom for mentors but you also have To learn the wisdom from your own Failures in your own traumas and your Own mistakes and your own pain points And this was actually the hardest thing Because I made like 300 Grand profit in A very short amount of time and very Shortly I lost it all From a lot of challenging situations From Bad Business deals that didn't work From Bad negotiations and work with Trusting the wrong people in business And one by one by one by one I started Losing a bunch of money and I I went Back at Ground Zero literally I lost Everything I lost everything again and Another part of the Hero Journey as a Man is you need to learn How to lose a bunch of money Now understand this I think the first Biggest lesson that a man learns in life Is when he has his first huge breakup Usually it's a huge breakup that makes Them Inspire to hit the gym makes him
Inspire to get rich makes them Inspire To date a bunch of girls it all sums With that first breakup but I think that Second most painful experience is when a Man loses a bunch of money in a short Amount of time that will teach you more About yourself than you could get in any Book So I lost a bunch of money in a short Amount of time and what did that teach Me about it taught me a lot about greed It taught me a lot about lack of Patience it taught me a bunch of things That my mentor was trying to teach me But because I was young and naive and I Didn't know any better I was like oh I'm Never going to go through the same pain Points as my mentor he it's just because He's older than me are you interested He's older than me he doesn't understand We live in a new age so here I'm Thinking I know best I got it in the World and guess what because of my ego And because of my greeting because of my Lack of patience I got financially Injured It's kind of like in for example the Karate movies where you're not ready For this foe you get injured you get Injured it's like in the anime series Where you literally fight a person that You're not strong enough you can't go Super Saiyan yet you get your ass beat And now you're like I guess I got to go
Back to training so then essentially What happened after that period of time I lost a bunch of money I went back to Training how did I go back to training Again finding more mentors constantly Reading more books constantly failing Constantly reiterating from my failures Constantly learning from those mistakes And then eventually creating my own Operating system on what caused all the Failures in the past because if you lose A bunch of money there's certain beliefs That you had that make you lose it if You lose a girl there's certain beliefs That you had about relationships that Made you lose that girl right I started Understanding the Dynamics that Controlled my mind the emotions that Controlled my mind so then now I was no Longer being able to be run by them so That makes sense so again it was all Part of the hero's journey so once I Understood that usually what happens Is again it's a bunch of ups and downs And ups and downs on the Hero Journey You start growing growing growing Growing you're growing in all aspects of Your life you're still constantly Training you're still constantly Focusing on your Fitness you're still Constantly focusing on your Relationships with women as well as men That you respect that are high value And then you just continue going so at
This period of time again I had another Pain point I lost a bunch of money so Then I went back started making much Money again right it was starting to do Like six figures not a month and then I Started realizing that I'm not having That Adventure again and the the hero's Journey of every single movie every Single anime every single cartoon is the Man is always on a mission for Improvement and always on an adventure And on his Adventure he finds Like-minded people and he's constantly Travel it's like in one piece right it's Like you have this overpowered guy but It's not about him being overpowered It's the fact that he finds other people That are on the same mission Have the same goals have the same values And they go out there and travel and go In the world to go into just crazy Epic Adventures and have crazy stories and I Realized I was making money but I had no Adventure I had no freaking Adventure so What I did is I automated my business For like six months to 12 months I had All this content up And just threw it out there and I Pre-scheduled it for like a half a year Or a year essentially for the next year I just went on an adventure I just Started finding people that were just Like me I was like oh we have similar Values let's move there together oh hey
I'm like in Mexico you're going to go Ahead and move to Spain for a couple Weeks I want to go ahead and move with You I was like on my little pirate ship Meeting a bunch of people that were just Like me people that were living life off The beaten Edge and now we're just going On adventures right we're conquering new Cities together we're finding foes we're Going through challenges together we're Going ahead and finding new places we're Exploring new places we're meeting new Girls and we're like falling in love With we're we're getting our hearts Broken and falling out of love with and I started realizing the secret about Life And being on a man on a mission is to Halves this kind of like pirate ship This pirate crew around you we're just Kind of like going around and like Conquering new cities together building Businesses together falling in love with The girls that are there falling out in Love when you have to go out and leave And it's all part of the process of Being a man why do you think like when You're younger you look at like Dragon Ball Z and Goku and all these because He's just on it eventually through time And space with his people that he's like Just constantly training constantly Fighting bad guys constantly working Together in a teamwork why do you think
Like for example when I was younger I Liked one piece because here's this guy That's strong but it's not how strong he Is it's how cool of a friendship that he Has with his friends and they're on a Pirate ship going to new adventures Every single time and there's a bad guy That gets in between their Adventures They have to go ahead and beat their ass Right and sometimes they realize they're Not as strong as the bad guy so they Have to go out and train they have to Get stronger they have to go and find a Mentor they have to go ahead and do Something they have to unlock some Skills so then they can try beating him Again if you look at all the things that You see all the people that you look up To and all the TV shows the animes or The cartoons is the main hero that you Resonate with the most he literally gets His ass beat over and over and over and Over again physically spiritually Financially emotionally But yet he's always able to become Stronger and what you need to understand This is all life is That's all life is you growing in your Fitness in your relationships with men And women and your money you consecuting Your ass beat at every single level but Having a good group of people to support You along the way and that's really Where I'm at right now today where every
Single day there are times where like I Don't know what my next thing is gonna Be for business or oh wow like my heart Got broken because Echo did this or oh Wow you know it's like I got injured Because of that thing I need to go and Learn a lesson but having a good group Of people around you to go and hold you Accountable right a good group of people That push you when you feel weak a good Group of people around you that inspire You to go and keep on growing and then Going and traveling every single month To new places that's really what I do Now man it's like now I'm always Focusing on my money focusing on My Relations focusing on all these things But I found people that have similar Values as me and now once a month we Just go to new places for five or seven Days we have a new saga or a new you Know chapter in the book or a new sequel In this movie and every single month There has been some Cry of crazy Adventure where we learned a bunch of Lessons that made is stronger as people In our business in our emotions in our Relationships in relation to the men in High value men they want to do business With in a relationship with women every Single time we are on this adventure and The thing that was able to go ahead and Give this for me is actually creating Time money and location Freedom which
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